I am out to a guy who was flirting with me .he hasnt come out to me still.help?

this guy and i were just frnds .some time bfr he said he loved me ,some time he says i look y,i thought hes gay so i came out to him.he hasnt come out to me till now.do straight guyssay i love you to another guy in a lonely placeand do they say "u lookin y today".do they put hands arnd each others waist??.i dont think so.what do u think bcs i like this guy but not his mysterious ways.has any one of u gone thru this typical state[applicable for gay,straight,les]pls say.even if u want call me9438703976{this no is not for dating,only if u wanna talk }