I wanna know if this guy is gay??

works at a gay bar...i spoke to him few nights back and he let me touch his pecs. he is kinda twinkish looking but still very butch.. he gave me some free drinks and just laughed. i asked for his number but he said he doesnt give it out and is straight. i had told him that he was very y and he smiled and acted happy...we also talked about working out. is he just be friendly?